Honoring parents is a principle that runs deep throughout Scripture. It’s not just about obeying when you’re young—it’s a lifelong attitude of respect, gratitude, and care for the people who brought you into the world.
The Bible connects honoring parents with blessings, long life, and a healthy society. It also reminds us that honoring them is a way of honoring God Himself, since He established the family as a cornerstone of life.
In this article, we’ll look at 35 Bible verses about honoring parents. Each verse is followed by a short explanation to help you understand its context and practical meaning.
Whether you’re seeking to strengthen your relationship with your parents, teach children about respect, or simply reflect on God’s commands, these verses offer timeless wisdom.
1. Exodus 20:12
“Honor your father and your mother, so that you may live long in the land the Lord your God is giving you.”
Explanation: This is one of the Ten Commandments, linking honoring parents to a promise of longevity and blessing.
2. Deuteronomy 5:16
“Honor your father and your mother, as the Lord your God has commanded you, so that you may live long and that it may go well with you in the land the Lord your God is giving you.”
Explanation: God repeats this command to stress its importance, promising well-being and long life to those who obey it.
3. Leviticus 19:3
“Each of you must respect your mother and father, and you must observe my Sabbaths. I am the Lord your God.”
Explanation: Honoring parents is placed alongside keeping the Sabbath, showing its high value in God’s eyes.
4. Proverbs 1:8-9
“Listen, my son, to your father’s instruction and do not forsake your mother’s teaching. They are a garland to grace your head and a chain to adorn your neck.”
Explanation: Parental guidance is a source of wisdom and honor, enriching your life.
5. Proverbs 6:20-22
“My son, keep your father’s command and do not forsake your mother’s teaching. Bind them always on your heart; fasten them around your neck. When you walk, they will guide you; when you sleep, they will watch over you; when you awake, they will speak to you.”
Explanation: Godly parental teaching offers lifelong guidance and protection.
6. Proverbs 23:22
“Listen to your father, who gave you life, and do not despise your mother when she is old.”
Explanation: Respect for parents should continue throughout their lives, especially in their old age.
7. Proverbs 30:17
“The eye that mocks a father, that scorns an aged mother, will be pecked out by the ravens of the valley, will be eaten by the vultures.”
Explanation: Disrespecting parents is treated with great seriousness, showing how God values honor in the family.
8. Matthew 15:4
“For God said, ‘Honor your father and mother’ and ‘Anyone who curses their father or mother is to be put to death.’”
Explanation: Jesus affirms the command to honor parents, pointing out its seriousness.
9. Matthew 19:19
“‘Honor your father and mother,’ and ‘love your neighbor as yourself.’”
Explanation: Jesus places honoring parents alongside the command to love others, highlighting its moral weight.
10. Mark 7:10
“For Moses said, ‘Honor your father and mother,’ and, ‘Anyone who curses their father or mother is to be put to death.’”
Explanation: Jesus reminds the people of God’s standard for family respect.
11. Mark 10:19
“You know the commandments: ‘Do not murder, do not commit adultery, do not steal, do not give false testimony, do not defraud, honor your father and mother.’”
Explanation: Honoring parents is part of the core moral law of God.
12. Luke 18:20
“You know the commandments: ‘You shall not commit adultery, you shall not murder, you shall not steal, you shall not give false testimony, honor your father and mother.’”
Explanation: Jesus restates the commandment, showing it is still relevant.
13. John 19:26-27
“When Jesus saw his mother there, and the disciple whom he loved standing nearby, he said to her, ‘Woman, here is your son,’ and to the disciple, ‘Here is your mother.’ From that time on, this disciple took her into his home.”
Explanation: Even on the cross, Jesus cared for His mother, modeling honor and provision.
14. Ephesians 6:1-3
“Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. ‘Honor your father and mother’—which is the first commandment with a promise—‘so that it may go well with you and that you may enjoy long life on the earth.’”
Explanation: Paul teaches that honoring parents is right and brings blessings.
15. Colossians 3:20
“Children, obey your parents in everything, for this pleases the Lord.”
Explanation: Obedience to parents is an act of pleasing God.
16. 1 Timothy 5:4
“But if a widow has children or grandchildren, these should learn first of all to put their religion into practice by caring for their own family and so repaying their parents and grandparents, for this is pleasing to God.”
Explanation: Caring for parents is a spiritual duty and an expression of gratitude.
17. 1 Timothy 5:8
“Anyone who does not provide for their relatives, and especially for their own household, has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever.”
Explanation: Providing for parents is part of living out your faith.
18. 1 Timothy 5:16
“If any woman who is a believer has widows in her care, she should continue to help them and not let the church be burdened with them, so that the church can help those widows who are really in need.”
Explanation: Family has the first responsibility to care for its own members, including parents.
19. Deuteronomy 27:16
“Cursed is anyone who dishonors their father or mother.”
Explanation: God pronounces a curse on those who dishonor their parents, showing the seriousness of this sin.
20. Proverbs 20:20
“If someone curses their father or mother, their lamp will be snuffed out in pitch darkness.”
Explanation: Disrespecting parents leads to severe consequences.
21. Isaiah 45:10
“Woe to the one who says to a father, ‘What have you begotten?’ or to a mother, ‘What have you brought to birth?’”
Explanation: God warns against speaking disrespectfully to parents.
22. Jeremiah 35:18-19
“Then Jeremiah said to the family of the Rekabites, ‘This is what the Lord Almighty, the God of Israel, says: You have obeyed the command of your forefather Jehonadab and have followed all his instructions and have done everything he ordered.’ Therefore this is what the Lord Almighty, the God of Israel, says: ‘Jehonadab son of Rekab will never fail to have a descendant to serve me.’”
Explanation: The obedience of children to their parents brought lasting blessings.
23. Ruth 1:16-17
“But Ruth replied, ‘Don’t urge me to leave you or to turn back from you. Where you go I will go, and where you stay I will stay. Your people will be my people and your God my God. Where you die I will die, and there I will be buried. May the Lord deal with me, be it ever so severely, if even death separates you and me.’”
Explanation: Ruth’s devotion to Naomi shows the heart of honoring a parental figure.
24. Genesis 47:12
“Joseph also provided his father and his brothers and all his father’s household with food, according to the number of their children.”
Explanation: Joseph honored his father by providing for his family in time of need.
25. Genesis 48:11-12
“Israel said to Joseph, ‘I never expected to see your face again, and now God has allowed me to see your children too.’ Then Joseph removed them from Israel’s knees and bowed down with his face to the ground.”
Explanation: Joseph showed deep respect and humility toward his father.
26. Genesis 50:1
“Joseph threw himself on his father and wept over him and kissed him.”
Explanation: Expressing love and grief is part of honoring a parent.
27. Genesis 50:12-13
“So Jacob’s sons did as he had commanded them: They carried him to the land of Canaan and buried him in the cave in the field of Machpelah.”
Explanation: Fulfilling a parent’s final wishes is an act of honor.
28. 1 Kings 2:19
“When Bathsheba went to King Solomon to speak to him for Adonijah, the king stood up to meet her, bowed down to her and sat down on his throne. He had a throne brought for the king’s mother, and she sat down at his right hand.”
Explanation: Solomon honored his mother publicly with great respect.
29. Esther 2:20
“But Esther had kept secret her family background and nationality just as Mordecai had told her to do, for she continued to follow Mordecai’s instructions as she had done when he was bringing her up.”
Explanation: Esther honored her guardian by continuing to respect his guidance.
30. Luke 2:51
“Then he went down to Nazareth with them and was obedient to them. But his mother treasured all these things in her heart.”
Explanation: Even Jesus obeyed and honored His earthly parents.
31. Philippians 2:3-4
“Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others.”
Explanation: Honoring parents includes putting their needs and well-being ahead of our own.
32. Hebrews 12:9
“Moreover, we have all had human fathers who disciplined us and we respected them for it. How much more should we submit to the Father of spirits and live!”
Explanation: Respect for earthly parents reflects our respect for God.
33. 1 Peter 5:5
“In the same way, you who are younger, submit yourselves to your elders. All of you, clothe yourselves with humility toward one another, because, ‘God opposes the proud but shows favor to the humble.’”
Explanation: Humility and respect are key parts of honoring parents and elders.
34. 1 Kings 19:20
“Elisha then left his oxen and ran after Elijah. ‘Let me kiss my father and mother goodbye,’ he said, ‘and then I will come with you.’”
Explanation: Elisha shows respect for his parents before beginning his ministry.
35. Job 29:8
“The young men saw me and stepped aside and the old men rose to their feet.”
Explanation: Rising in respect for elders, including parents, reflects biblical honor.
Final Thoughts
Honoring parents is more than just an old tradition—it’s a biblical principle that strengthens families, communities, and our walk with God.
It’s about showing love, gratitude, and care throughout our parents’ lives, not just when we are young. Scripture makes it clear that honoring parents pleases God and brings blessings.